Wednesday, October 14, 2020

A Letter to Aidan from Grandma

 

My dear Aidan,

I am so sorry that I let your birthday slip up on me without remembering☹

Months ago I bought you a birthday card that I thought would strike your

“funny bone”. On the front it says, “The President and Mrs. Trump wish

you a Happy Birthday”. The card was wrapped in saran so I couldn’t see

what was inside, but I bought it and tucked it away for your birthday!!

When I realized that TODAY is the day, I opened the card to find a

naughty word inside. Oh well, maybe it was just as well that I didn’t send

it.

As I think of you as my grandson over the past 15 years, I think of your

quietness and thoughtfulness. I often reflect on the amazing birthday gifts

you sent to me this year. The beautiful study you did of our family lines is

an incredible gift. And the recitation of four chapters of Matthew is

staggering to me (especially in light of the trouble I have remembering

anything). I was sure that yesterday was Wednesday, and here I am today,

living it all over again. The job you did memorizing Jesus’ genealogy is

beyond my comprehension.

I also think of you, Aidan, as a game-lover. You can virtually play for all 4

people at once, just as smoothly as a swiss watch. Your hands glide over

a game board, moving “men”, snatching money, making change… all in

one seamless motion…. for everyone at the table!!

However, I have also seen your gentle grace and humor. I will never forget

playing ping pong with you in your garage. We were volleying back and

forth and I was thinking, “Hey, I’m not so bad for 70. I’m holding my own

pretty well with this (then) 14-year-old.” When all of a sudden, out of

nowhere, a ping pong ball flew at me so fast that I could see nothing but a

blur and could in no way react in time to guess where it was in time to

swing at it. A little smirk came over your face. Then I realized that you

were playing graciously with your Grandma, but you couldn’t quite resist

letting me see a bit of what you were holding back. I loved it��

My very least favorite memory of you, Aidan, was when you unknowingly

ate some peanut butter cookies. You weren’t feeling well, but you just

quietly retreated to your bedroom. Fortunately, you must have realized that

you desperately needed help, but still no noise or fuss. You just came back


downstairs, looked at us with a splotchy, frightened face. There was no

question that you were having a serious allergic reaction. Your parents

quickly stabbed you with an epi-pen and your Mom found a neighbor with a

car that she could borrow so your Dad could take you to the hospital. I’ve

never been so thankful to see you at home again.

When I think of all the beautiful promises in Psalm 119 that belong to those

who “hide God’s Word in their heart”, I am so excited to see how you will

continue to grow and mature, and how God will use your life to bring glory

to His own. You have quietly and soberly taken on so many challenges

that center on the mastery of God’s Word. I am so thankful for God’s Spirit

in you, Aidan, and for the young man you have become. You bless me so

much, Aidan, and I know you will bless many others throughout your

lifetime.

I wish I could have shared this birthday with you. I know it will be a Happy

One!!


So much love


Grandma

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